Bringing home a newborn is magical, overwhelming, unforgettable — and a little bit chaotic. As Mother’s Day approaches, we couldn’t help but reflect on those early moments of motherhood.
The bleary-eyed nights. The sweet firsts. The moments we felt unsure, and the ones that changed us forever. It got us thinking about our own journeys and what we wish we had known when we were just starting out.
So we asked the moms of Team LS: What do you wish you could go back and tell your new-mama self? Here’s what they said — in their own words.
Nothing is permanent.
"No matter how hard it seems, remind yourself that this is a phase that will pass. Accept help — don't try to be a super-mom. Just surviving is a feat in those first couple weeks.
And advice for my past self: take more videos, and don’t forget to be in some of them! I don't have enough of those little baby grunts and noises and always wish I had more!" ~ Maradith, Founder
Slow down.
"As a new mom your routine is completely different, there’s less sleep and so many new things that you’re doing to keep a tiny human alive. If you spend all day in your PJs… totally fine!
Appreciate all the newborn moments. You only get those first times once. Also: invest in a good stroller and baby wrap — long walks were so meditative for me." ~ Lindsay M., Marketing
Featured Styles: Heather Mauve Zippy and Women's Robe
Comfort matters.
"I wish I could go back and tell myself about Sensory Processing Disorder—how real it is, and how much relief is possible with the right tools, like bamboo clothing and pajamas. Life could have been so different if I had known on day one of motherhood what I know now.
Once I did, everything changed — my life and my kids' lives transformed in the most meaningful ways." ~ Anna H., Operations
Share your experience.
"What is personal is universal. If you're in the thick of it, chances are one of your parent friends is too. Sharing your experience makes the parenting journey so much more enjoyable.
Also? Get a cleaning or meal delivery service. Less time keeping house means more newborn cuddles!" ~ Erin M., Merchandising
Simplify everything.
"You got this, mom! Invest in the things that make your life easier (that killer stroller you wanted? Go for it. Those Zippies that make changes a breeze? Yes, please!). When you can't console the baby, pack up and go for a walk or a car ride. Motion and fresh air can work wonders." ~ Agnes S., Marketing
Featured Styles: Blue Rainbows Zippy, Rust Rainbows Zippy, Pastel Rainbows Zippy
You’re doing great.
"As a new mom I was constantly worrying that I wasn’t doing something right — especially when I struggled with breastfeeding. Hearing and feeling the phrase ‘you’re doing great’ made a world of difference to me.
Also: the days really are long, but the years are short. Treasure the firsts!" ~ Christine T., Marketing
Find your village.
"I don’t live near any family, so being a mom has truly taught me that it takes a village! As a brand-new mom (in a new city at the time) I turned to online mom groups for support and connection, including the LS VIP group before I even joined the team.
New parenthood can feel so isolating, but once you start sharing the challenges, you realize you’re really not alone." ~ Lindsay M., Marketing
Featured Styles: Butterfly Blooms Zippy, Luxe Bow Headband, and Women's Pajama Set
Ask for help.
"You're not meant to do this alone. You can't do everything for everyone all at once — something I still have to remind myself daily 😅. And it's totally OK to be specific about what kind of help you need." ~ Erin M., Merchandising
Let things go.
"Let go of expectations and pressures — for what parenthood will look like, how an outing will go, how your baby will sleep, all of it. Be okay with letting some of the balls drop and asking for help. Having a kiddo with different needs, our life looks different, but it’s perfect in its own way." ~ Taylor B., Community
Whether you’re in the newborn stage now or thinking back to it with rose-colored glasses (and a little more sleep!), one thing’s for sure: this season is as fleeting as it is unforgettable.
Tap in — we’d love to hear your advice! Share your tips for new mamas (or a note to your younger self) in the comments below. Each month, we gift one lucky commenter a $50 LS gift card!
